Monthly Archive: August 2012

My Dog Ate It

I have homework every afternoon now. Scratch that. Livia has homework, I am the Homework Helper.

The Homework Helper reminds, points, encourages, redirects, corrects and sometimes throws a pencil across the room.

Deep sigh.

I am being sanctified by daily homework. God has given me Livia and he has given her homework, and in doing this he has given me an opportunity to serve him. He is gradually building a Homework Helper who does not throw a pencil across the room but one who tries to take deep breaths, sometimes takes self-imposed time outs (while the actual student takes one, too) and learns to be patient. Make that extra patient. Screw extra patience, this patience he is teaching me is supernatural—I am not capable of it on my own.

As great as I am at second grade homework, I fail at gentle motherhood on a regular basis. My desire to be The Most Awesome Mother Ever isn’t enough here. It doesn’t get me through the frustrations of parenting a child and it certainly doesn’t win me brownie points in heaven. I cannot do this job. But God? He handpicked me for this exact role and he’s working in me to make me a great mom for a great kid.

He gently leads those who have young, he carries them close to his heart.

What a relief.

Livia’s Shot

Sorting through some images this morning, I stopped on this fabulous photo of our little friend Kiah.

I paused for a minute, looked closely at the surrounding images and quickly realized I didn’t shoot it. Livia did. Using my backup camera, she walked through the Pioneers Park Nature Center capturing images that were interesting to her. Sweet and fun four-year-old Kiah qualified. This is a proud photographer-mama moment for me, peeps.

While Liv was clearly showing genius levels** of photography skills, I was doing my own thing. She captured me at work as well.

**If you know me well, you know that I’m bragging on my kid in good fun. We’re faced with lots of behavioral challenges lately and it’s a joy for me to see Livia do something well. This one pic turned out well. The others, not so much. ;)

Happy Face Photo Session

Toothy Grin

Second Grade!

And she’s off to a year of new things! New school, new teacher, new friends. New backpack.

Same little heart that we pray is ready to learn this morning. Same awesome sidewalk drawings by the Moreheads who now drive across town to cheer Livia on.

Go, Liv, go! Second grade is going to be a great year!

August 12


Friday night at Holmes Lake — Lincoln, Nebraska

Second Grade

Jeremy moved from Columbus, Nebraska, to Lincoln for second grade. I moved from Augusta, Georgia, to Fresno, California, halfway through second. And Livia Raine continues the tradition by moving across town at the start of her second grade year.

I’d argue she has the easiest transition of all. And yet, as her mother who knows how hard transitions are for her, I am grateful for a small move rather than a big one.

Last night we took our first steps through Livia’s new school and the differences between two elementary schools in the same city were pretty obvious to me (though I don’t think Livia noticed them much).

Size. This school is big, almost 200 more students than the last one. Parents and children were flooding into the halls and, as another mom pointed out to me, moms and dads were in attendance.

Color. There was a lot of white goin’ on last night. Liv would say peach, or pink if you’re talking about her dad. The rest of us see it as white. White white white. Now, I like white people just fine but this change is the hardest one for me. And yes, I know it’s not even *my* school so whatever. Our last school was such a mix of ethnic backgrounds—it was rich in that sense—and this new place is quite homogenous. I’ll adjust to it eventually, but you can bet I’ll be on the lookout for diversity in the meantime.

Parents. Parental involvement in this new school is huge. Everywhere I turned last night I was confronted with a sign-up sheet for something. Sign-up for an email list (or three, I really think I signed up in three different places). Sign-up to volunteer in this classroom or that. Sign-up for fall conferences. And spring. And here’s a sticky note for a reminder because goodness knows you won’t remember that spring conference date once you leave the room. I’ve heard the PTO is really active (which scares me a little) and I’ve been given notice that fundraising here is alive and well. Friends, you’ve been warned. Come to me—I mean LIVIA, cough cough—for all your wrapping paper needs this fall. We’ll hook you up.

No matter where you go, some things are the same. Academics and school staff. All across this town there are professionals who go to work each day for the sake of you and your kid. I cannot express how much I value the employees of the Lincoln Public School system and how grateful I am for the work they do. Not only did I graduate from LPS (Lincoln Southeast Class of ’96, hello!) but I’ve also had great interactions as a parent with the Early Childhood Intervention folks and the staff of Livia’s first elementary school. I have been surprised time and time again how much these professionals care for my child and how committed they are to her success as a student. One thing is clear to me: we’re all in this together. And I couldn’t be more pleased.

So here we go, diving headfirst into the 2012-2013 school year, training little people to love learning. It doesn’t get better than that.

August 9


Lucky the Turtle, Pioneers Park Nature Center

August 8

This child of mine continues to grow and grow and grow and grow. I rub her back at bedtime and marvel that she’s the same person who I laid to bed in a crib eight years ago. Teeny arms and skinny legs have s-t-r-e-t-c-h-e-d into this child who now wears earrings and is just beginning to primp in front of the mirror. The day has come where my motherly musings on her growth can’t be lightheartedly posted on a public website for all to see. She’s at the beginnings of a new time of life, one that asks for privacy to grow in beauty and strength and individuality.

Lord God, grant us wisdom as we raise this girl to glorify you.

August 7


Sundial in Pioneers Park Nature Center

I am kickstarting myself towards creativity. Enough of Angry Birds and Oreos, of not reading and writing. It’s time to turn things around.

I’ll be posting an image here daily for the next few weeks in hopes that the words piled up inside of me can begin to find daylight again.

Here I go!