I have no idea why Liv connected “good mommyness” to “teaching children to obey.” I even questioned Jeremy on that one because she tends to repeat what she’s heard (he said he didn’t coach her to say it). There are a lot of sentiments I didn’t express in this blog post… Like how I feel like Jekyll and Hyde on most days, swinging back and forth between this crazily frustrated woman I hardly recognize and a loving, compassionate mom I always imagined myself to be. See how that works? I imagined this sweet, cuddly, consistently patient mother, not factoring in how I might feel my child, oh let’s say, dumps copious amounts of fish food into our friend’s aquarium or unexpectedly pitches a total fit during quiet time/naptime. I suppose what I’m trying to say is that I don’t mean to toot my own horn by that last post. Liv’s statement was, as I posted in the subject line, unexpected. And super heart-warming.
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Mom L Nov 7, 2007 10:00 AM
Toot away, Beck! Livia just had a moment of understanding that boundaries/discipline=love. She’s a smart little cookie! Love always, Mom L
Jamie Nov 7, 2007 11:21 AM
Funny, the word “toot” really cracked me up in that post. :) I know EXACTLY how you feel — it’s the bane of all mothers’ existences, I think. And if one doesn’t feel like Jekyll and Hyde, I think she’s lying to herself. (And mostly, I think that because thinking that she’s serious makes me feel like Jekyll all the more.) :P Circular.
Jacinda Nov 12, 2007 8:33 PM
Kinda thinkin’ what Jamie said, that ALL moms are like this. Even the ‘best’ ones, the ones who SEEM perfect (but aren’t). You are a spectacular mama, and your lil’ girlie knows it.